Spletnapot

Hi, i ran into a brick wall trying to add flash contact form to my custom made concrete5 template.
The form is flash and uses xml file. Flash form is actually not editable in a way to specify xml path, so i need to point to xml in standard "flash object" way. Tried numerous combinations and i got form to show up, but it does not display form background and send button. Form and other related files are placed in root of template folder and code looks like this:

<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="(http)://fpdownload.macromedia.(com)/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=7,0,0,0" width="202" height="260" id="CC2312744" align="middle">
<param name="movie" value="<?=$this->getThemePath()?>/myform.swf"/>
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="FlashVars" VALUE="xmlfile=<?=$this->getThemePath()?>/myform.xml"/>
<param name="scale" value="noscale" />
<param name="salign" value="lt" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="#ffffff" />
<embed src="<?=$this->getThemePath()?>/myform.swf" FlashVars="xmlfile=<?=$this->getThemePath()?>/myform.xml" quality="high" bgcolor="#ffffff" width="202" height="260" name="CC2312744" scale="noscale" salign="lt" align="middle" /></object>

Specifying the full url location in upper code for xml and swf didnt work. Upper code is the only way i got form to show up, but withouth background and submit button. Already edited xml file where path to background is specified, pointed to actual url and nothing seems to get it displayed.
Adding flash block via concrete5 also didnt do the trick as there is no way to add xml file.

The form is made with coffecup software and uses myform.php,xml and swf file.

Any suggestions on how to ?